Hello, Pet

 I’m the owner of this blog, co-host of Bearing Our Soles—a BDSM podcast where we overshare in the best way possible—and a full-time expert in doing way too much at once. I’m 37, married, and living in Texas, where I somehow juggle dominance, nursing, and a house full of furry overlords (three dogs, four cats, and an ever-rotating lineup of foster kittens).

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ADHD runs my world, so when I’m not herding pets, wrangling submissives, or pretending I have free time, I’m probably off traveling, buried in a book, or obsessively picking up a new craft like crochet, sewing, or knitting… because why settle for one hobby when I can collect them all? Oh, and let’s not forget—always being there for my friends, because apparently, I don’t believe in the concept of "too much on my plate."

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Kink-wise? I thrive on voyeurism, exhibitionism, worship, sadism, humiliation, and the spicier side of life with CBT, JOI, anal play, and mild pet play. Sometimes, I enjoy a splash (literally) of water sports with my subs, and I’m eagerly diving deeper into rigging. I’ve been in the lifestyle for over a decade, but I never stop learning, growing, and, let’s be honest, collecting more fun ways to torment my playthings.

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So, welcome! Whether you’re here to learn, laugh, or just enjoy the chaos, I promise you won’t be bored.