Masochism is one of the easiest things to misunderstand and one of the hardest to explain to your doctor when they ask about those bruises.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

things are going to change here, as I am changing. My relationships are changing, and what I can do and what I want to do

I am constantly in a state of submission and I always know my place with my Domme. There are no timeframes or business hours

Bondage is sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound

Personal story written by a Sub on his personal experiences when he was new, and abused but did not know better.

Learn the most basic ideas of BDSM and some of the common terms. Learn about respect and trust.